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Monday, 18 February 2013

The Glory of Expression


Over the past five years I have been extraordinarily lucky to travel as much of the world as I have. I am by no means assuming that I have seen everything there is to see, or done everything there is to be done, but I feel for my age and background I have made a rather exemplary effort to broaden my horizons.  There are many things that I could write about with regards to my travels and exploits but most would simply be in the tone of the blog I wrote during my time in Africa;  a list of facts and documentation of events that bear little relevance to anyone but myself . What compels me to write (and I feel when one writes one should be compelled) is the desire to share an acquired opinion. Not facts and figures but simply a mentality that cannot be called a consequence of any particular location or culture I have been exposed to, rather a unique amalgamation of thought a person inevitably attains from the people, culture and places I have been lucky enough to associate with.

As it turns out, living in a country for four years is a long time. And if you want to fully embrace the culture, mannerisms, mentality, dialect, politics or any other attribute of that region you simply have to immerse yourself in your new home and never look back. I am writing this from the confines of my parents’ house in York PA so clearly that permanent immersion didn't go according to plan. But the important thing is that when I moved to the UK I embraced all of the aforementioned attributes as if I were never leaving, as if I were changing my identity. This mentality gave me a rather unique perspective and in hindsight the ability to increase my cultural awareness to a degree I do not feel would have been possible during a ‘visit’ abroad. Predictably one of the most drastic changes was my exposure to linguistics and language. Not in the sense of cross-language knowledge but an introduction to British English and all its subtleties.  A greater frequency of encounters with the likes of Oscar Wilde, P.G. Woodehouse, Stephen Fry, Longfellow and Tennyson changed my perceptions of spoken and written expression. Words were no longer used as a simple means of communicating an idea but as a means of embodying expression.

Now when I returned to the U.S. after my five year sojourn I was afraid that my new-found love of language and its many uses would be viewed, at best, as muted pomposity. There have been instances in which this has happened in the past few weeks but to my great delight an extended vocabulary and knowledge of its use has been welcomed. I am by no means a proponent of unnecessary complication when it comes to vocabulary, but I support an extended knowledge of language and I personally take great pleasure in its usage. There are still scenarios where my choice of terms and phrases is view as elitist and so I will still use and enjoy ‘imperfect English’ because sometimes a setting or emotion requires a deviation from classic prose. But there are few things I enjoy more in this world than a good glass of wine and a conversation with a friend who shares my passion for the glory of expression. 

Monday, 11 February 2013

Epic Adventure -- Day 118 -- 25/12/2012 -- Lusaka

Merry Christmas everyone!!! We woke up at around 8:00am again this morning, all had tea and coffee and eventually sat down to open presents. It is a Beale tradition to wear a silly hat whilst opening Christmas presents and this morning we had two Santa's, one reindeer and one angel :) Dan and I got some really lovely gifts from my parents this morning, including a beautifully decorated African set of chopsticks for our sushi habit, an African angel Christmas decoration (also a tradition) and a beaded fridge magnet frame! I could go on, but I won't :) it was great to watch them open their presents that we had gotten for them throughout the trip up to Lusaka.

After presents we all got through the shower and got dressed to do the last little bit of preparation before our guests arrived. We made the final dish for lunch, a broccoli salad, put out the smoked chicken, the gammon and the salads and set the table up. Just after noon Kylie, Mike and their daughter Lucy arrived with Christmas crackers, a couscous salad and delicious homemade bread. Prella and Daisy arrived shortly afterward with ice and a yummy cheesecake. Daisy, Mike and Kylie all work with dad on the ISchool project, Daisy is an administrator, Kylie and Mile both volunteer for the company, and Prella has the fascinating job of being a government pilot. We popped the crackers and started eating the mountain of food, chatting and laughing and enjoying the mulled wine cocktail I made yesterday.

Kylie told us about a game they play every Christmas with the silly cracker paper hats. During lunch one person surreptitiously removes their hat, and everyone who notices should also slowly remove their hats till the last person left sorting still wearing their hat is the loser. The game had us in fits of hysterics eventually because Daisy realised that Kylie had removed her hat and so she just snatched it off her head while she was talking, which obviously everyone noticed and quickly whipped theirs off too, so no one lost! We all moved to the couchs after the huge lunch and sat drinking more mulled wine cocktails and chatting. eventually everyone became quite tired and they all went home, leaving us with time to ring Jess and James and the Whiteleys in York. We also got to chat to Edna and Kim who were the for Christmas lunch. After all the fun of the day we relaxed and watched tv, and out on the porch till it was time to go to bed :)

Epic Adventure -- Day 117 -- 24/12/2012 -- Lusaka

Good morning Christmas eve! We woke up around 8:00am, the same time today that we have been waking up every day in Lusaka. Because we are hosting Christmas lunch tomorrow we have quite a few things to prepare today. We made a mayonnaise and chive potato salad, Christmas pudding sauce, chicken liver pâté and Christmas pudding ice cream. While Mum, Justina and I were cooking Dan was at work on my computer using excel to perfectly set up every card that we would need for our Monopoly board. The way he did them, aside from the silly values in Zim currency and the names, they look exactly like the cards in Monopoly!

Mum phoned Dad while he was still at work to ask him to stop by Spar on his way home to see of he could pick up more glacé cherries for the desert and if he could get any Christmas napkins. He eventually got home, and told us the shops were manic and that it took him 25 minutes just to find a parking space. To throw salt on the wound, the shop didn't even have what he needed to get! When he had had a bit of lunch we all set to work moving the dining room table so that we could pull the leaves out to its full length, set up the chairs and decorate the table. We are having quite a few people to lunch tomorrow, so we need all the space we can get :)

Mum and dad went across to introduce themselves to our neighbour in the afternoon and Dan and I relaxed and watched some tv and finished up most of the Monopoly cards. We were ment to have pasta with mum and dad but they took so long to come home that we cooked the pasta ourselves, and had it with pesto and some of the smoked mozerella. Dan and I both thought the cheese tasted a bit plasticky so we left the pasta and had a sandwich instead. Mum and dad eventually came home hours after they left and were pretty drunk :D The lady next door, Natasha, had plied them with beer and wine and they had a fantastic time with her. She works at one of the casinos in town and loves alone because her husband works in SA, so we are pretty sure she gets a bit lonely. Mum and dad thought the pasta was delicious, and they ate loads of it, before we all said goodnight and went to sleep.

Epic Adventure -- Day 116 -- 23/12/2012 -- Lusaka

Our first Sunday in Lusaka! Mum had been telling me about this great craft market that is very near the house, and so that was obviously on the agenda for today. We left the land rover at home and all piled into the Lexus after breakfast. We drove to the Arcades shopping centre, about 2kms from the house, to the Sunday craft fair. After eventually finding parking, we all piled out and started perusing the stalls. Each one sells something a little different, from wire crafts, jewellery, plants, clothes, mats, art, to rock sculptures and wooden items. Mum directed me to her favourite shop that sold beaded wire things. I instantly fell n love with the reindeers, who were perfectly formed all the way down to the antlers! They were K20 000 each for the two that I bought, and K5 000 for the tiny wire gecko, coming to an extortionate £5 :)

We walked around the rest of the stalls, Dan and I wanting to buy quite a few things that we knew we would never have the space to take home. One of my favourite shops was a metalworks one, where they take scraps of metal, cut and solder them together to make the most beautiful sculptures of warthog, meerkats, elephants, zebras, you name it! They then paint the sculptures with a black paint that stops them from rusting, really making them look even better. Unfortunately we would definitely not have any space for a heavy metal item in our bags, so I walked forlornly on, but I will make space in my bag for something the next time we come to Lusaka! Mum and dad had a look at a few mats for the front and back door made from strips of cloth weaved together. They decided to buy a couple next weekend, so we picked up some herbs for mum at K5 000 each and got back into the car to head to Pierre's house.

When we got to his house mum started on the two loads of laundry that we needed to get done, and dad went out to Melissa's to buy some more returnable beers. We also returned the bottle of bitters that I has brought from the house when we moved, mistakenly thinking it was mums, but she had already packed it. We put on say yes to the dress, my favourite show at the moment, while we waited for the 30 minute laundry cycles. Dad came back from the shop with some delicious smoked chicken for our lunch, and once the laundry was finished we set off again for home.

Dan set the smoking box back up to give the garlic another go as soon as we got back. Unfortunately both of us forgot about the soldering iron for just long enough that the ceramic bowl it was heating the wood chips in got too hot for the box to handle, and we managed to melt the bottom and side of the box where the bowl was. Thankfully not all the way through, but still! Mum and I set to work on making the dinner, a sort of courgette quiche that she found on pinterest. You grate up all of the ingredients amd cut the bacon up into small pieces, we obviously added more than the recipe called for, and put it in the oven for 30mins. It was really delicious, and something that I will certainly be cooking again! After watching a little more tv and researching more immigration information, it was bedtime after another great day in Lusaka.